Posts tagged ‘consumerism’

Wednesday, May 27, 2009

not political, just independently minded

I love a good idea.

Maybe not as much as I love good chocolate, but that’s temporary.  Or so I tell myself.

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For those of you saying “remember the Compact?  We don’t buy new stuff”.  I say, do you eat out?  Do you shop at a local thrift store?  Do you buy handmade products from artists in your community?  Do you get your shoes repaired or your clothes dry cleaned?

When Cinda Baxter first dreamed up the 3/50 Project I imagine she wasn’t considering people who had put Compact style buying restrictions on their lives.  This shouldn’t stop you from participating.  I don’t believe the Compact was begun to say “don’t spend money”.  It’s about being considerate of how much money you spend and what that spending in turn means to the environment.

And if you’re not a Compacter, just think of all the establishments you could be saving.  As Cinda said:

It’s about funneling revenue back into local business. You know-—the folks that pour money back into the community via commercial property taxes, payroll taxes, sales tax, and salaries (not to mention all that good will by way of volunteer time, silent auctions, sponsored softball teams, workshops, book signings, etc.).

Many people who are community minded, or live in a small town, may take an idea like this for granted.  But for those in the big city, and especially those who are used to shopping by convenience, it’s a great reminder that who we choose to patronize has bigger implications than what we walk out the door with.  (Even if it’s just a full belly.)

Even if you don’t shop or eat out often why not do it at independent, local places?

Friday, May 22, 2009

friday forum

Another week with nothing to throw away.  I have to admit, I feel like I’m doing something wrong.  I mean really, if Kristen at The Frugal Girl (she’s the reason I tell you this each week) has waste how can I not?

I must not be cooking properly.  Or it’s because I don’t use fresh herbs.  They intimidate me.

I have a 2″ square of tofu that will be up next week if I don’t think of something to do with it fast.  Maybe an egg and tofu scramble this weekend could save me on that one.

I was also saved of some previously claimed waste.  That’s right, I’m reclaiming my waste.

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ignore the moldy bread, it's the freezer burned chicken in the bag

The chicken in this photo is no longer waste.  Thanks to the great recommendations by Jonathan Bloom’s readers over at Wasted Food I will be using it for some soup in the near future.  Check out his post about my near wasted food and you will see what else I won’t be throwing away.  If you have something in the fridge or cupboard that you just don’t know what to do with, tell Jonathan.  He’s sharing our sad stories on his blog to help end the wasted food franchise.

Maybe between Jonathan and Kristen we will have to find something else to talk about on Fridays.

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Oh wait, I have something else to talk about.

waste

I was recently directed to check out Zero Waste Alliance.  Their thinking behind waste may be considered inovative by some, nothing new by others, and quite genius by me.

Waste is a resource in disguise.  It represents a failure of our processes and products and a loss of money.  We recommend that the entire concept of waste should be eliminated from our thinking and the word resource be substituted.

If only we could teach everyone to think of the object they hold in their hand when they think they are done with a product as a resource ready to be turned into something else instead of something to be gotten rid of by the quickest means possible.  (I know some of you already think this way [okay maybe not the run-on sentence part, or the parenthesis inside parenthesis part], this is directed at the people who will probably never read this blog unless they come across it while doing a search on Eddie Vedder and Twitter.  Hey, it happens.)

Zero Waste Alliance is doing just that.  In fact,

  • Interface, Inc. in Atlanta, Georgia has eliminated over $165M in waste.
  • Xerox Corp., Rochester, New York has had a Waste-Free Factory environmental performance goal since the early 1990’s. The criteria include reductions in solid and hazardous waste, emissions, energy consumption and increase recycling. This program resulted in a savings of $45M in 1998.
  • Hewlett Packard in Roseville, California reduced its waste by 95% and saved $870,564 in 1998.
  • Epson in Portland, Oregon has reduced its waste to zero and has saved $300,000.

How cool is that?

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Another cool thing that’s really taking off.  Have you noticed all the press The Story of Stuff has been getting recently?  Not only did The Huffington Post and NPR each do pieces this month but it made the front page of the New York Times.  (Actually, the HP and NPR pieces followed the release of the NYT story, but press is press right?)  If you’re not one of the 6 million that have seen this 20 minute look at all the stuff in our lives, you really must check it out.

Wednesday, April 29, 2009

free stuff

free-stuff

I know I just went on a bit of a rant about Freecycle.  And it’s not that I don’t like Freecycle.  It’s just that I’ve been to busy distracted to do my part to get the most benefit from the program.

I’m not going to do anything about that particular issue now.  Instead, I’m going to offer you some free stuff.

Sorry, this is not a giveaway.

I can’t afford fabulous (if used) prizes and as I’m sure only 3 people besides my mother read this that wouldn’t be much of a contest.

Okay, back to the free…

There are two categories for that which I’m giving freely.  The first is the free I like because it’s fun and creative.  These great sites offer free downloads for things I like to imagine I might make one day.  A girl can dream.  No, the supplies are not free, but the design and the idea are.  That’s the hard part for me.  Sometimes I’m creative, I just lack the design and the idea.  Check these guys out:

Creature Comforts – not only are there great designs to download but links to other free stuff.  It’s a two-fer.  Love the mailing labels.

LollyChops – not only is Lolly a kind gal giving away her designs.  She’s also a fantabulous graphic designer.  I adore the chocolate cobbler packaging.  (Mom, you might be seeing one of these boxed up with a gift tag this year.)  And the MerivelMoon paper, and the calendar template and the…  Oh, just go look.

Vintage Glam – this is primarily a wedding site but there are some really great design downloads available.  Lots of labels, fonts and cards.  Gotta love Freebie Fridays.  Check out the Mad Libs Thank You notes.  Gotta get me some.

So that’s enough nice.  Now something for the general audience.  Assuming you haven’t left me yet.

You haven’t left have you?

I’m a fan of acme eclectic’s blog.  It’s not the kind of blog you might think I’d enjoy.  But it’s eclectic.  Like me.  And sometimes there’s something of national interest.  Okay, maybe not national…but I think you’d be interested.

A while back ae posted about great free music.  Specifically free Song of the Day downloads.  If you have a radio station that offers these you know how great they can be.  Well, here’s what acme eclectic has to offer…

KEXP 90.3 FM (Seattle)

KCRW 89.9 FM (Los Angeles)

KUT 90.5 FM (Austin)

The Current 89.3 FM (Minneapolis)

Each station’s “Song of the Day” rotation includes a little flavor of the local market, as it should be.  But you will find emerging artists from around the world featured on a daily basis.  Each of these stations also present in-studio performances that are generally available for download and that periodically serve as material for that day’s offering.

Time, ideas, sounds…I cannot hold these things in my hands although I consider them all consumable.  All of these things may be free.  All of these things may have value.  I hope I have shared some valuable freebies today.

Do you have anything to share?

Monday, March 30, 2009

is frugal the new black?

le-repas-frugal

Here is Merriam-Webster’s definition of frugal:

Pronunciation:
\ˈfrü-gəl\
Function:
adjective
Etymology:
Middle French or Latin; Middle French, from Latin frugalis virtuous, frugal, from frug-, frux fruit, value; akin to Latin frui to enjoy
Date:   1590

: characterized by or reflecting economy in the use of resources

Did you notice the etymology?  Virtuous, value, akin to “to enjoy”.  Positive words.  Why then does frugal have such a negative connotation?  Being frugal is becoming almost hip.  More out of necessity than desire though.  As we (people, society, American or other, humans, earth-dwellers, you and me) are being told constantly of a downturn in the economy, and experiencing it for ourselves, we are paying more attention to what we buy.

We are all consumers, whether we are buying brand new shoes from Zappos or a used bread maker from the local thrift store.  To me, The Compact merely designates us as conscientious consumers.  What we buy, where we buy and how we buy defines our consumerism and only we can determine if it is conscientious.

So whether we are buying a lot or a little, new or used, a positive attitude about our individual circumstances seems to be key to finding value and joy in our frugality.

Mary Hunt, over at Debt-Proof Living, said it well with these three tips.

1.  COMMIT TO A CLEAN CAR.  Even though I’m still driving a 1998 Honda it doesn’t bother me so much that we can’t upgrade if it is clean.  A good car wash and garbage clean-out always make me feel better about my wheels.

2.  CURB THE CLUTTER.  Clutter of stuff creates clutter in my mind.  By cleaning out the closets and shelves I not only open up my space for all that “good energy” but I also open myself up to feeling good by donating all that stuff I don’t really need to someone who might.

3.  TUCK A C-NOTE.  I have to admit I haven’t tried this one but I can see it’s benefits.  By tucking a $100 bill (or a $20 if that’s where you need to start) into your wallet you won’t feel poor.  The challenge of course is keeping it there.  But if you have to think twice about breaking a hundred dollar bill to have an $8 lunch with co-workers you may keep to the brown bag you brought.  Just knowing it’s there will put a spring in your step.

I’m not much for telling others how to live their lives, in fact, I’m not likely to ever say anything on the subject.  But as this blog is about me (okay, okay, and my family) sometimes you might just get to hear my thoughts.  Whatever they may be.

The Compact works for my family because we are happy to make the sacrifices required.  We see the positive upside.  If that’s not your thing, so be it.  But if you find yourself cutting back, whether it’s just your daily Starbucks or as much as your monthly food allowance, please try to think of how the change may be helping.  If not you then somebody else or something else, maybe even the planet we’re all spinning our wheels on.

artwork: Le Repas frugal, Pablo Picasso, 1907

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Tuesday, February 24, 2009

firing off

on-street

If your house were on fire what would you grab?  This was the question posed by Anna Quindlen in a Newsweek article last December.  (Yes, I’m just reading it now.  I also have each Real Simple issue from January through March that I haven’t touched yet.  I have time issues.)  But the point of the article (or at least what I took to be the point) was that today’s consumerism is going bankrupt along with our economy.  And perhaps that’s not such a bad thing.  If we can realize that stuff is not the answer, then more stuff will not solve the problem.  If we have less material possessions maybe the ones we do have will have some meaning.

I think I’ve always done a pretty decent job of keeping the clutter down to a minimum.  And what clutter there is, is because I value it.  A year of thinking hard about every purchase really drives that home.  I’m already thinking how I will live next year.  What restrictions will my family live under after we complete our Compact year?  I have told you before, I am a design geek and a little OCD about the matter.  Some of the things I find myself needing should be part of a matched set for which I already own a portion.  (example: I have four matching glass canisters for flour, etc.  Now I need more canisters because I am cooking so much at home.)  But how can I keep everything matching if I’m limited in where I can get my goods?  Does it really matter?  I’m sorry to say, yes, it does.  At least to me.  So I may do without until I can purchase the items that fit the aesthetic so I maintain a sense of balance.  But to me that is meaning.

If we can work at limiting our possessions to those that have true meaning then figuring out what to grab from that fire might be a major decision.  But at least it will be a question of value and perhaps not price or status.  We all have purchases of limited value yet great convenience (think about that daily microwave usage), but do we confuse convenience with necessity?

I think it’s pretty much impossible for most people to answer what one thing they would grab, but if I could put four or five items in a laundry basket what would they be?

1) external hard-drive which houses over 4000 pictures taken in the last three years – including our wedding and every stage in Toddler L’s short life so far.
2) clay model of a building I made in high school – because even when I deny it, it reminds me that I am an artist.
3) the jewelry box that was made for my grandmother, and if I’m lucky all the pieces I have inherited are safely stored inside as this is a tangible connection with the women in my family.

I was really going for a list of five but I just couldn’t get there.  Either I’m tired, I can’t recall everything I own at any given point (very likely since I’m tired and pregnant), or I have realized there is very little that can’t, with some effort or money, be replaced.  What’s on your list?

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Tuesday, February 10, 2009

conscious frugality

pennies

On my usual meanderings through the blogosphere I came across a great post over at The Non-Consumer Advocate.  Like me, she is a mom who joined the Compact and has been reviewing what it means in her life.

“Which brings me to the term conscious frugality. To be mindful with one’s money without being miserly or blowing it on poorly made stuff that’s was never manufactured with longevity in mind.”

I have to say, that could mean a departure from the tenets of the Compact.  So far this year I have been quite happy to shop used for what we have needed.  It has met our needs and I don’t think we have missed out or bought less than comparable quality because of it.  But that doesn’t mean I wouldn’t consider buying something new of great quality, (and for that I mean production quality, not necessarily brand quality or cost) that will last my family for years to come.  Think about it, many of the things we (being me) buy at thrift stores and flea markets are 15-20 years old at least.  If they weren’t quality to begin with, they wouldn’t still be around for me to be the second, third or subsequent owner.  The problem lies in the fact that most things are not made the way they used to be.  Which brings us to the stuff issue.

Reading Ms. Wolk-Stanley’s post reminded me that my desire to join the Compact was not to limit my family to second-hand goods, but to take a year to look at what we buy, what we spend our money on and perhaps save some of that said money.  Conscious frugality.  It has a ring to it.  I like it.

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Friday, February 6, 2009

at what cost do we recycle?

recycled-materials

You may have heard this piece on NPR’s All Things Considered in December which discussed how the recycling industry has been affected by the downturn in consumerism.  A majority of this downturn is economic-based, not because the majority of society has realized we don’t need as much stuff as we have been led to believe.  But the end result is temporarily the same.  We are buying less packaged goods.  In my opinion that is a good thing.  But, (yes there is a but) that does affect our current system of recycling.

As is stated in the NPR piece, we buy things, we take them home, we un-package them and (if we’re lucky) we put that packaging in the recycling bin on the curb.  Or, as in my case, we head to a nearby recycling center like Walser’s.  But that’s just one step in a long chain of activities.  Let’s see if I can catch them all.  Product is made and packaged.  Product is purchased and packaging is recycled.  (It’s my dream this is always the case, just let me dream.)  A government entity or business entity takes the recycled packaging and sells it to a recycling distributor.  This distributor sells it to a processor to recycle said packaging into new packaging (or in the rare instance, new consumables).  And this could be cardboard packaging, plastic packaging, glass packaging, metal packaging, you name it, I’m not discriminating.

The issue at hand seems to be that because the US is consuming less product there is less packaging to sell to the processors.  Is that good for the environment?  You bet.  And as I said, I fully support this.  I wish this was the end of the story.  But it’s the 21st century and the majority of society revolves around business not ethics.  Not what I would choose just what I happen to see as fact.  I know I can change my percentage of this and obviously I have chosen to for my family.  But I’m less than a cog in the wheel of American society.  So we’re back to less packaging to be sold.  And that’s the key word, sold.  Not less.  Recycling, like most everything is a business.  Is it a business that helps the environment?  You bet.  Do the people at the top of every recycling/processing company/plant care about the environment.  I doubt it.  They do care about making a profit.

Currently, a majority of our recycling is done in China.  Why?  A lot of reasons.  Fewer regulations.  Cheaper labor.  They make a majority of the product that needs packaging so it can be shipped back to the US.  Is this good for the environment.  Of course not.  Eco Child’s Play published an article following the NPR story.  As was illustrated there, one solution is to do more of the recycling here in the US.  Create more product in the US, create more recycled packaging in the US.  Why ship to another country what could be done right here?

If only it were so simple.  There are recycling plants in the US.  There is a desire keep that business local.  But the same economic rules apply.  If the amount of recycled material is decreasing the plants cannot process what they don’t have and make the same profit margin as they have in the past.  And by profit margin I mean enough cash flow to pay for the processing, there’s not a gold mine inside every recycling plant.  When I dropped my last load of recycling off at Walser’s earlier this week, I was told the company they sell to is considering not taking paper and plastic any longer.  And this is a US processor who sells to a US recycling plant.  They don’t ship it overseas.  They just can’t make a profit anymore.

Am I saying buy more stuff to save the recycling plants?  No.

Though the current down swing of shopping means there are crates of fibers not being used, it also means that there will be less coming in. Supply and demand, even in recycling, eventually even themselves out. With fewer packages being used the supply of packaging being recycled will also diminish.†

I agree with this concept.  The issue goes back to the current business market though.  As we wait for the supply and demand to even out, we are going to lose some of our recycling options.  Plants may close, processors will buy fewer recyclable materials and companies like Walser’s will stop collecting my paper and plastic.  I’m not writing this as an unbiased news article.  I am simply an eco-friendly steward, mother and yes, consumer.  I do not have the answer but I do think we need to help keep the recycling plants open.  What does that mean?  Provide more recyclable material?  Subsidize the plants?  Subsidize the companies that use recycled materials to incentivize them?  I don’t know.  I do know the whole thing boggles me.  And I don’t want to find another way to dispose of my paper and plastic.

[†Should We Consume More to Recycle More? Eco Child's Play, December 23, 2008]

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Monday, February 2, 2009

score

dollar
Another day, another dollar.  Right?  That’s the saying anyway.  I believe the saying is referring to another day worked, another dollar earned; but in today’s society it might as well be another day gone, another dollar spent.  This week though, I am looking at the dollars I saved.  Specifically this past weekend.  I have to re-cover my dining room chair seats.  (Major digression coming, just preparing you.)  I covered them in white ultra-suede when we moved here.  I know, WHITE?  I was pregnant so should know better, right?  Well I got the last laugh on that one.  Not only did I know it was basically temporary, was simply fulfilling my designer need to always have “the right look” (whatever that is) and allowed me to use this yummy fabric; it turned out to be practically spill proof!  In the first months I spilled red wine, tomato sauce and who knows what else on it and a quick wipe with a damp cloth and it was good as new!  I was thrilled!  And shocked!  And thrilled!  But 18 months later (16 of those with child, 10 of those with mobile child, 6 of those with mobile child and sticky fingers) and we have finally reach the no-clean limit.  Which is fine, I am always up for a change.  So…”I have to re-cover my dining room chair seats…”

Now, under the Compact rules that means no easy jaunt to my favorite fabric store and home to complete a quick project.  But there should be plenty of places to find used fabric right?  It could be a curtain, a table cloth, a sheet, a muu muu.  It just has to meet my “design” standards.  Unfortunately I don’t know what those are.  I just know I want a certain…something.  And that means a lot of trips to thrift and consignment stores.  So husband was ever the studly fellow and created a list of shops in our area for us to visit.  And visit we did.  Store after store.  Alas, no curtain, table cloth, sheet or muu muu was found that tweaked my hairs.

But it was certainly not a lost venture.  I found a truly prized possession – a salad spinner!  What joy!  I know, I’m easily amused.  Or just kinda sad.  But whatever, I’m happy.  Unfortunately, it’s not the pull-thread kind (apparently the preferred model among friends as it allows more interaction in the process) but it spins and my pillow cases can now go back on the bed.  AND, husband was very excited about a designer label shirt he found for Toddler L.  It was the great design (and the $1.99 tag) that he was so excited about not the label, but it was nice to score a quality piece and save a bundle at the same time.  I was thrilled to find one of those new-fangled, weird-yet-cool looking Dust Busters for $4.99.  (And it’s even the color of my choice!)  I hate the thought of pulling out the big vacuum every time the boy decides he’d rather eat his O’s off the floor instead of out of a bowl.  Good thing we haven’t started the milk with cereal thing yet!

muu-muu

We’ll be back out later this week to continue the search for fabric.  I’m starting to hope I find a muu muu just so I can say my chairs were recovered with one.  Wish me luck!

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Friday, January 30, 2009

a look back

me-mirror

It’s almost the end of the month and it is the end of the week.  It sounds like a good time to take a look at where we’ve been.  Or how far we’ve come.  Or what we’ve done.  Or haven’t done for that matter.  But you get the idea.  We are a month into this here Compact year.  How’s it going so far?

Well, ever since I wrote that post about forgetting my bags I haven’t forgotten my bags.  I guess I just needed to verbalize my issue.  I should keep that in mind.  Maybe I’ll just start writing about all my problems.  Hmm, I might lose a few of you.  I think I’ll stick to the topic at hand.  What was that again?

I’ve also been doing a lot of cooking at home.  And I mean a lot.  More than I ever thought I would want to do.  And guess what?  I’ve been enjoying it!  Shhh, don’t tell my husband.  I cook, he does laundry.  If he thought I enjoyed the cooking we might have to change our deal.  And it works so well for me.  But in addition to actually enjoying my cooking I’ve finally gotten to the point where I can go to the farmer’s market, buy a bunch of different produce and actually make real meals out of it.  It’s kind of a learning curve you know?  I started with fruit and have worked my way up to cabbage, bok choy, various lettuces and so much more!  What’s next?  No, not that.  It won’t happen.  If there is any baking going on it won’t be me.  I’m quite happy with my Organic Oatmeal Chocolate Chip Cookies from Trader Joe’s.  A handful of those a day and I am golden!

We’ve had to buy four birthday presents this month and I was able to find great gifts (at least I think they were great, I hope the getters did too!) all at our local thrift and consignment stores.  I think we’ve been to Target twice and it was for soap, toothpaste, kleenex (I know, I know, I use hankies but husband just can’t get on that bandwagon, what’s a girl to do?) and Nature Babycare wipes.  All in all, I think we’re doing great on that front.  I was also able to score 11 linen napkins at the flea market last Sunday for only three bucks!  And I really like them to boot!  Got a new (circa 1979) bookshelf to be used as a TV stand in a friend’s apartment too.  A coat of paint and that will be one sweet find.

That friend’s apartment…it’s a design job I’m doing.  More like a favor really.  A favor she’s doing for me.  I’ve wanted to spruce up this place for years.  Now’s my chance.  And my first order of business (after finding the bookshelf) was to select all low VOC (actually Dunn Edwards NO VOC!) paints.  It’s truly the best.  Playing with furniture, fabric and paint in an eco-conscious way with someone else’s money (on a budget – I like a challenge).  This rocks!  Okay, I know that was a major digression.  Back to my Compact accomplishments.  (Wow, does that sound like a pat on my own back!)

We’ve been back to Walser’s with all of our pre-sorted recycling.  Did you know they even take the metal hangers that (annoyingly) come from the dry-cleaners?  They are so great.  Really.  And yes, we dry-clean.  My husband’s work shirts.  I don’t iron.  Not like that anyway.  I know it’s not environmental (although we do try to use the green cleaners) but that’s why I try to do so much else.  I am working to find the balance.  I take small steps.

And to keep things honest and real – I’m ashamed to say I threw away some celery today.  Granted the whole thing only cost me a dollar at the farmer’s market.  But still, I’m not happy about it.  I was making soup and had taken as much as I could use for that already.  The rest was so limp it bent like a willow branch in a strong wind.  I couldn’t think of a use or how to save it until I could think of a use.  I’m sorry.  I feel terrible.  I just thought you should know.

To end on a positive note though, I will say that I am really looking forward to the next month of this adventure.  And the one after that.  And I promise to have more pictures tomorrow.  Pictures make everything so much more fun don’t they?  Well, to hold you over until then I will leave you with this…

what's the message?  no message.  just a pretty picture.

what's the message? no message. just a pretty picture.

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Wednesday, January 28, 2009

precycling

precycle

According to Wikipedia precycling is a form of waste minimization.  Specifically,

“Precycling is the practice of reducing waste by attempting to avoid bringing into the home or business items which will generate waste.

Those that participate in the precycling movement may carry with them a “precycling kit” when they are outside of their houses. Such a kit might include a re-usable lunchbox, a set of cutlery, a cloth napkin or handkerchief (instead of paper tissues) and a thermos or reusable water-bottle, etc.; all items might be carried in a cloth bag that can double as a shopping bag.

Precycling, then, includes any such attempts to reduce the production of waste.”

I gotta say, I had never heard the word before or really thought that there was a concrete concept to how I try to live.  It’s interesting to find out you are following a dictate without ever having realized the dictate exists.  Does that mean I am very forward thinking or way behind the times?

love these

love these

I spend a fair bit of time with small children and their parents at play dates and such.  It’s always so interesting to me, when I pull out my bambu spork (which I absolutely love by the way) and explain why I use it.  At first it’s “wow, what’s that?” and then a look of complete confusion when I say I use it so I don’t have to use the plastic utensils they have.  Like I don’t get that the plastic is free.  Why wouldn’t I use it if it’s just being given to me?  And I’ve pretty much come to expect this from parents and kids alike.

At least when I pull out my hanky and explain that it belonged to my great-grandmother they just think I’m sentimental.  I’m so much better with that than “crazy lady”.  Although my son is 16 months old and I already have a note to myself to look into bento boxes for when he goes to school.

So maybe crazy isn’t so far off.  Or that bad.  I mean have you seen what you can do with a bento box?

amazing artwork by Sakuraku Kitso

amazing artwork by Sakuraku Kitso

And no, I don’t really expect my son’s lunches will ever look like this.  But I can dream.  I can also dream that one day he might eat such a healthy looking meal.  But that’s another story.

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